Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Welcome to our destination wedding in Ocho Rios, Jamaica! We are overjoyed to have you join us for one of the most important days of our lives in one of our favorite places on earth. We know many of you were excited for December, but we’re so grateful for you sticking with us these last few weeks and showing such love, support and flexibility. This day is as much about us as it is about all of you—our loved ones who’ve supported, matured, encouraged, and guided us to this moment. We are so excited and grateful knowing you will be here with us in “Ochi” as we celebrate our love, dance the night away, have rum punches beachside, and turn up - Ja’ mon! This website will serve as your ultimate guide to everything related to our wedding weekend, from travel and accommodations to details about our welcome party and local attractions we recommend based on past visits. We can't wait to make unforgettable memories with you on this beautiful island as we begin this next chapter of our lives.

Our Wedding

His version

We started this journey meeting through an introduction by our mutual church friend, Will Murray, who suggested a blind date after me sharing dating discernment prayer requests the umpthteenth time in Men's group. So Will sent me Rebecca’s Instagram via WhatsApp in January 2021. I thought she was amazing, seemed so interesting, and really beautiful. At the same time he had told her about this charming South African guy from Will’s men’s group, and that he had a feeling we’d be a good match. But she never heard from her mystery man, I wrote down in my weekly planner to reach out to ‘Will’s contact’ (Rebecca) for a few weeks, but that contact didn't happen, as I traveled away, lost focus, and we never connected when I returned.* She’ll say I fumbled the bag, but I say that God was working on both of us individually for a while longer.&nbsp; Luckily, after some months, through a dating app we were both reluctantly on at the same time, this Cali Queen with Ghana roots living in New York City, and this Washington DC-born South African/eSwatini King chilling 20 minutes across the water in New Jersey, were faithfully matched together (it had to be a sign! God’s timing is never wrong). However, we didn't know we were each other’s blind date that Will had tried setting up months before. We chatted back and forth, sending cute, flirty messages, and once I got her number, I asked her out. That night on September 10, 2021 at BLVD Bistro on 116th in Harlem, NY, we talked and laughed and got to know each other over some good food &amp; drink.. Midway through the conversation, we realized that we both went to the same church and that we both knew a guy named Will ! “Wait, are you the South African guy Will told me about?” She said. “No way, this is your Instagram?” (I pull up Will’s WhatsApp message from 9 months ago) As we were about to leave, I asked the busboy to take the first picture below, which we sent to Will, who was astonished that we had been brought back together after the blind date in January, which didn't happen!&nbsp;&nbsp; But there was something special about Rebecca… and how we were brought back together. I made a promise to myself to really give this the best chance to succeed. She’s really sweet, and I’m confident I can be the best boyfriend she’s ever had. Take the risk, no pressure. Hours passed, and it was getting late, as the loud music began to die down, and it was time to go our separate ways. I made a standard earlier that year to always bring nice flowers to my first dates, but this night, I was running out of time as I nervously drove across the GW bridge and didn't want to be late #FirstImpressions. So, after dinner, I offered to drive her to her apartment, and I promised her that if we had a second date, she’d get her flowers (which she got some days later).

Fast forward four years, it’s been a beautiful, multifaceted journey of: laughter, growth, tears, adventure, passion, care, thoughtful conversations, “I love you’s”, “I’m sorry’s”, vulnerability, giving grace, dancing to Afrobeats, Yebba, 90’s slow jams, rapping to Kendrick &amp; Glorilla, rocking out to Coldplay, worshipping at Maverick City Music concerts, doing devotionals, slow-dancing in random places, having date nights, charcuteries &amp; chicken tenderloins, Chit Chat, Katz Deli, volunteering, prayer, traveling (only with Delta because she won't fly anything else!), affirmations, appreciating our uniqueness, and all the intentionality to get us to today – happily a few moments away from being husband and wife and entering a special new chapter... This day is as much about us as it is about every person we care about in our lives who played a role in loving on us, maturing us, and guiding us to be great partners to each other. We appreciate you for supporting us in the first leg of this long journey #TheMarathonContinues

Her version

It all began on a Friday night in Harlem, as I rushed to BLVD Bistro—a soul food gem with pulsating music and shrimp and grits that could change your life. I was on my way to meet “Kevin T.” for the first time, a guy I knew little about beyond a few engaging chats on a dating app. I’ll admit, I was running late (I had a habit of doing that on first dates, but this time, I pushed it a little). I ran across the street and into BLVD Bistro, where I was greeted by a man with a captivating smile, rocking a Simone Biles T-shirt. Despite the DJ blasting music across the room, our conversation flowed effortlessly. And I found myself sharing things I’d usually keep close to my chest (or until perhaps, date 2 or 3)—personal details, intimate stories—but somehow, it all felt so natural, like he saw me for who I truly was. Between cocktails and appetizers, we discovered we both went to the same church. Oh, and he was South African. And then, the moment of clarity struck. “Do you know Will?” Let’s rewind nine months. A few months before meeting Kevin, my sister mentioned that her friend Will wanted to introduce me to someone. He had a gut feeling, one he’d trusted before when pairing up two other couples who eventually got married. All I knew was that this guy was South African. No other details. Naturally, I brushed it off, and carried on with life—until September 10, 2021. We’d been brought together, not by a random encounter, but through a Hinge date. It was clear to both of us—this moment in Harlem was no accident, and even though Will had tried to set us up months earlier, God had ensured we met when we were meant to. We talked for hours that night, and when he offered to take me home, we kept chatting. In that moment, I knew he was something special. I had never met anyone so thoughtful. Whether it was surprising me with balloons on the day I started my new job, or gifting me a custom Lakers shirt when I confessed I didn’t have a favorite sports team (he picked the Lakers for me, lol ), he paid attention to the small things—things I didn’t even realize I’d mentioned. It’s been over three years since that night, and those years have been filled with growth, learning, laughter, and adventure with my best friend. There are few people in this world with whom I feel like I can truly be myself—my ratchet rap-loving, charcuterie-obsessed, and ridiculously sensitive self. Kevin has grown to embrace every part of me and continues to discover new layers every single day. In turn, I’ve had the privilege of discovering all the incredible things that make him who he is—he’s one of the funniest, kindest, and most fun-loving people I’ve ever known. And let’s not forget, he’s a big Coldplay fan (even though he’ll never admit just how much), a connoisseur of chicken tenderloins, literally the FASTEST 5k runner I know who finishes first out of hundreds, and a passionate advocate for financial empowerment. If you didn’t know about Earn Your Leisure or Investfest before meeting Kevin, you’ll certainly be an expert by the time you leave! Before Kevin, when I used to talk to my girlfriends about the qualities I looked for in a partner, I’d always say, “someone who is kind.” Now, I feel like I’m marrying the walking embodiment of kindness. I’m so grateful and in awe of what God has done. We’re so excited for this next chapter, and we’re overjoyed to have you all here as a part of this journey with us!

Our Story

Accommodations

Moon Palace Jamaica All Inclusive Resort

We have chosen Moon Palace Resort as the home base for all of our guests during our wedding weekend. We will be providing complimentary transportation to and from the wedding venue for all guests staying at Moon Palace. Additionally, we’ll be kicking off the celebration with an All-White Welcome Party on March 11 at the resort, and we would love for you to join us there to get the festivities started! While we encourage all our guests to stay at the Moon Palace resort if possible, we understand people might want to explore additional options. The <a href="https://www.riu.com/en/hotel/jamaica/ocho-rios/hotel-riu-ocho-rios?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=0_4_US_EN_VAC_SEM_BRAND%20HOTEL%20DEST_JM&amp;utm_content=SEM_BRAND%20HOTEL_JM_OCHO-RIOS_HOTEL-OCHO-RIOS&amp;utm_creative_format=text&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=10279184589&amp;gbraid=0AAAAAD5ycjKgEW89XJZ7aTVygpZ7y3Yxq&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAl-_JBhBjEiwAn3rN7dANV1_92DY2HCAi15JX6YLvO014NP16rSuhBbDHOP2-Qt6eZ7xvthoCRZIQAvD_BwE" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Riu Ocho Rios</a> is also an affordable option very close by!

Full Service Travel Assistance

For assistance booking full (Delta Only) vacation packages, flights, and airport transfers, kindly contact Anna Sai (cell 951-544-4114) or email thwalatojamaica@gmail.com.

Room Block

If you would like to book your room separately from your flight, we have secured a room block for guests at Moon Palace Resort from March 10 to 14. Please note* you do not*** have to stay from the 10th to the 14th. You can stay a minimum of three nights at any date within that time frame. You can access the room block at the link <a href="https://globalsalesgroups.palaceresorts.com/link/guest?key=eyJpZCI6IjQ4MGY1YjVkLWFhMjMtNDk4MS1iMWI5LTJiMDVmMDY0YmQwMCIsInRhZyI6IkxJTktJRCJ9" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>. *Important note: if you'd like to make a request for either a one or a two beds in your room, please make note of it in the special requests section upon check out.

Transportation

To book an airport transfer to and from Moon Palace Ocho Rios, please use this link <a href="https://transfers.palaceresorts.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>. The cost is about $60 per person round-trip. If you booked 4 nights or more on the room block, your transportation is free! For transportation needs related to our wedding, we've been working with Mike's Transportation and Tours. They offer a variety of services, including airport transfers. Just a heads-up: There are plenty of transportation options in Jamaica, so feel free to choose what works best for you. We're just sharing this one (along with some pricing info) in case it's helpful and you want to go this route! *If you're interested in these services, please reach out to Mike's Tours directly.Whatsapp: +1 (876) 787-8309 (Jamaica number)Email: miketoursja@gmail.com Oneway Airport Transfer: MBJ Airport to Moon Palace Resort$30 USD per person  ( Covers 5 or more persons traveling together) $120 USD Total (Covers from 1 up to 4 persons traveling together)

Travel & Accommodations

March 11, 2026

All-white Welcome Party

We’ll kick off our wedding weekend with an All-White Welcome Party at the Moon Palace Resort’s Starlight Terrace on March 11, 2026 at 7:30 PM. Please join us in your best all-white attire for cocktails and light bites as we begin the celebrations!

March 12, 2026

We say "I do" at Laughing Waters Villa in Ocho Rios, Jamaica. Please note the ceremony is off-site (not at the resort); the venue is a five-minute drive from Moon Palace Resort. If you’re staying at Moon Palace, please be downstairs in the resort lobby by 3:15 PM for complimentary transportation to the venue.

March 13, 2026

The “After I Do” Yacht Day Party

Instead of a traditional bachelorette celebration, Rebecca is excited to host a post-wedding day party on the waters of Ocho Rios with friends and family. Space is very limited and requires a separate RSVP. To request a spot, please email thwalatojamaica@gmail.com.

Wedding Weekend Details

Crystal Dahe

Jillian Baker

Tokunbo Ajibola-Stott

Natalie Carter

Kalyn Norwood

Busola George

Jillian Davis

Uche Abanobi

Dawchelle Hamilton

Billy Kobetitsch

Ken Germán

Tendo Mwaramba

Nahom Hawaz

Wedding Party

Photos

Q + A

Registry

Fun fact: We went river rafting during our first trip to Jamaica on March 26, 2023. We loved it and found it incredibly relaxing and beautiful.

White River Calypso Rafting & Tubing

We climbed this waterfall during our second visit to Jamaica on April 14, 2024. Although Rebecca found it slightly terrifying, the views at the top were absolutely breathtaking.

The World Famous Dunn's River Falls & Park

A family favorite: We visited Scotchies during our first trip to Jamaica on March 26, 2023. They serve a variety of jamaican favorites. It’s a must-try—especially the jerk pork, which was Kevin’s favorite!

Scotchies 

Whatsapp: +1 (876) 787-8309 (Jamaica number)Email:miketoursja@gmail.com For transportation needs related to our wedding, we've been working with Mike's Transportation and Tours. They offer a variety of services, including airport transfers, tours, and more. *If you're interested in these services, please reach out to Mike's Tours directly. Just a heads-up: There are plenty of transportation options in Jamaica, so feel free to choose what works best for you. Were just sharing this one in case it's helpful and you want to go this route!